Published on: August 1, 2021

How our kids found our their mother was raped by a pastor – Timi Dakolo

Singer, Timi Dakolo, has revealed that how their children, Alexander, Hallel, and Zoe Dakolo found out their mother,

Busola, was raped by a pastor.

How our kids found our their mother was raped by a pastor – Timi Dakolo
How our kids found our their mother was raped by a pastor – Timi Dakolo



Timi hinted that he informed their kids about the rape ordeal when she spoke out about it in June 2019.

Speaking during an interview with media personality, Toke Makinwa, Timi Dakolo said, “Yes, we

informed our kids. I think I raised my kids differently. Children love validation. My kids can talk to me and express themselves very well. I had to make them know that their mother is a superhero. I explained that it was a painful experience that happened when their mum was very young. They understood even though they might not know the gravity

of what it was. They understood that something was happening. So, anytime they go to her, they give her a hug.

“When you tell someone that, ‘I’ve got you’, be true about it. Often times, we associate being a man with muscle, biceps and strength. The pain that one feels that is not physical is the real pain. When one tells one’s partner, ‘for better, for worse’, most people think it is just ‘for the better’ because one cannot quantify the worse. It does not announce itself. When one says those words, one has to be sure. Don’t say it because everyone is saying it. Many times, she had wanted to tell me certain things but I had waved her off. I had known about the issue and telling me was not easy for her.”

How our kids found our their mother was raped by a pastor – Timi Dakolo

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On whether he was worried that his wife’s revelation would have a negative impact on his career, the ‘Iyawo Mi’ singer said, “No, I was not worried that her story might affect my success. People don’t get it. Someone once asked me this question and I said I would always know how to sing. In the midst of six million people, I would sing and people would notice. The word ‘man’ is synonymous with responsibility and one won’t need certain things

when one is strong. When they say family first, it means let everything stop. It’s not in the good times alone.”

When asked about his opinion on failed marriages, Timi Dakolo added, “Before two people decide to get

married or have children, they should sit down to talk. Forget all the marriage counselling that says ‘you must obey him’ or ‘when he is talking, the woman should keep quiet’. I think we place too much (emphasis on) religion

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in front of this thing called marriage. For instance, it is not every time that the husband talks that the wife should not talk. It is not every time that love is at its highest. Forever is such a long time for one to make a mistake. Discuss deeply without external input first. Everything should be based on the truth. I think one of the biggest mistakes is when one gets married, thinking one’s partner would change. One cannot change anybody. Human beings will fail one and let one down. We are prone to make mistakes. If one marries the idea of a Prince Charming, it would fail one.

One must give up a part of one’s ego to stay in a marriage.”

How our kids found our their mother was raped by a pastor – Timi Dakolo.

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